My boyfriend had left to work at a PSU 800 km from my city. I learnt that she was travelling to the same location as mine. A girl who worked with me asked for some help related to travel. This happened when I had been out of the country. I’m basically a shy guy and interact with women only when it is required. I'm a married man with kids in late thirties. For me, I did that because I was able to. So now, I'm feeling the brunt of both losses at once, and it sucks. I am still trying to make peace with the idea that my husband didn't love me enough to want to fix things. The other part of me understood my position as someone unnoticed and unappreciated in my own life. I'd tried everything to fix things in our relationship, offering to go to counselling, working on myself, trying to communicate but to no avail. I really, really, did not want to hurt him. My marriage had been sexless for 3 years. When people on Quora were asked this question, here's what they confessed. But how does one deal with it? Should one confront with their partner or seek pleasure outside of the relationship? While it's true that sometimes people fall out of love and begin feeling suffocated in their relationship which previously seemed like everything they'd ever wanted from life.
